Friday, January 11, 2013

27 weeks...Third Trimester: Here I Come!

    First of all, Happy New Year everyone!  Second of all, 27 weeks this week! About the equivalent of 7ish months! Only 3 more to go! Time is flying by and this little guy will be here before we know it. Again, there's not much to update on as from here on out it's just about making sure he's growing and healthy. Appointments will be every 2 weeks from now.

Doctor's Update:    

We went to the clinic at a different time than usual which led to seeing a different doctor. I didn't mind at all. My usual OB is an older lady and I believe the one we saw this time was her son (it's a family clinic). He was very nice and friendly and I actually think I like him more than the woman! He took his time with the ultrasound and explained everything he showed and was doing, which is more than my usual doctor does. Of course I didn't understand everything but he did try to use English when he could. Basically, Jacet is growing fine and right on target with how far along I am. His heartbeat is strong and everything looks to be correctly formed. He now weighs about 1166g which equals about 2 1/2 lbs. The doctor was also able to get a very lovely picture of Jacet's cute little face.

Me Update:

Apparently the younger doctor does not believe my weight is a problem. He didn't mention anything about it. My sugar levels are also normal. I knew it was just all the Christmas cookies I had eaten...
I don't really have any pregnancy symptoms. I get tired easily and it's getting a little uncomfortable to sleep at night...and my legs fall asleep often. Not to mention nighttime pee breaks. Other than that and the fact that my belly (and butt. and face. and thighs.) is growing, I feel perfectly normal. Now for some belly pictures :)  the first few are from last week (26 weeks) and then some I took today.



 Other Stuff:

Since we only have about 3 months to go (yikes!), I've started researching baby stuff to buy. We're most likely moving at the end of Feb/beginning of March, so most of the big stuff will have to wait until then. But I've narrowed down my options and made a list of other necessities to get in the meantime. There are so many little extra things that we have to get! So here is where I ask you all for any advice and opinions for things I definitely need vs things I really don't need :)

Stay Tuned for more updates!



 

Friday, December 21, 2012

Getting Bigger and Bigger~

     There's really not much to update this time around. I'm now 24 weeks and some odd days and had my Doctor's appointment this week to check up on the little guy. He's still very healthy and moving around quite a lot! I can feel the kicks everyday now. Tomo has yet to believe that he's kicking/punching/moving enough so that I can feel it inside and out. He thinks it's all in my head....but it's not, and someday, when he has the patience to wait for it, he'll feel them too. It's not very regular right now so Tomo is reluctant to sit with his hand on my stomach waiting for the possibility of a kick. I know soon enough they'll be strong enough and regular enough that he'll get the chance to feel them though.

     The doctor's visit was pretty quick and uneventful. I was told I gained too much weight even though it's only up about 4kg (~9lb). The doctor told me that she only wanted me to gain about 5-6kg (11-12lbs) total! That's obviously not going to happen as the baby will probably be anywhere from 6lbs when he's born...Japan is very strict about weight gain. I think it has something to do with the fact that they mostly perform natural births and believe a smaller baby is easier to give birth to...but it's also probably because their body build is smaller. I was also told at this visit that the sugar content in my urine was too high. They took some blood to check up on that. Hopefully it was just that day since I had eaten a bunch of cookies from baking the day before and had chocolate milk right before the appointment...Other than those little mishaps, everything was fine! He's still a boy, still moving, heart is still beating. He weighs about 750kg which is about 1.6 lbs and right on track. Sadly I wasn't given an ultrasound picture this time around (probably because she was mad at me about my sugar and weight!). And yes, we are still planning on the name Jacet(t?), though spelling is yet to be decided.

On another note, Christmas is coming! The house is decorated and even though we won't have presents under the tree, it still feels Christmas-y. My family (plus grandparents) sent a nice Nativity Scene for Christmas and Tomo's parents sent a nice, warm blanket. My grandparents also sent some adorable baby clothes, blankets, and toys :) Tomo and I had a little "date day" and went to see some pretty Christmas lights (after we picked up my new Resident Card with a renewed 3 year Visa!). Tomo has to work Christmas Eve, but he promised to come home early so we can have a Japan Traditional KFC and Pizza Christmas dinner and go to church. Yes, I convinced him to go to Christmas Eve Mass with me! Christmas Day we have no plans so far except for me making dinner American Christmas style...except with not so much food since it's just the two of us. After Christmas is the New Year! Tomo has to work both New Year's Eve AND Day so that will be uneventful. I'll still make food for New Year's Eve and spend the night watching all of the Music Concerts they show on tv while I wait for him to get home.

 Enough rambling. Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and Happy New Year to everyone!

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Halfway Mark!


This is just a little post to express my excitement that I made it halfway! I'm now 20 weeks and feel pretty great now. And...I think I've started to feel some kicking! I'm not 100% sure, but occasionally I'll feel little flutters in my abdomen and am hoping that it's the little guy. BUT I could just be imagining things since I'm so anxious to feel him move!

Tomo's mom sent me some stomach warmers/supports. They're very comfortable and do help a lot while I'm sleeping. She also sent some very cute chocolate and a new infrared space heater that's supposed to warm up the whole room, now if only it would get cold out so I could use it!




Also, I feel like my stomach popped out during the last week! Maybe it's just me, or maybe it's because I always pay attention to it after I eat...but you can judge for yourself. First are two 20 week pictures that I took today, and (obviously) the one after is the 19 week picture from last week:


What do you think? Bigger? Just my imagination? Even though I'm getting bigger, I still feel like I'm in the "looks fat" rather than the "looks pregnant" stage.

Now for some name information. I know people aren't too crazy about the name that Tomo made up, but for now, that's what it is; he's set on it and rejects any other name I give him, and I'm opening up to it. Full name, at this point in time, is............Jacet (pronounced Jay-set) Haru (for Japan times, it means Spring) Izumiya. Jacet Haru Izumiya. Due April 9, 2013.

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

It's a...


BOY! I'm sure most of you saw the Facebook announcement I posted. I was going to try to wait until I had time to update the blog but...I was just too excited! I'm now 19 weeks and 2 days, just about halfway! Now for some more general updates.

I've been following a forum on the babycenter.com website that consists of other April 2013 moms. Sometimes it helps a lot to read the advice and opinions of the more experienced mothers, but recently it's been making me anxious and worried. A lot of the women have started feeling their baby's movements from around 16 weeks and an occasional few have posted 2nd trimester miscarriages. Well, I haven't yet felt any baby movements (I'm 19 weeks) and became so worried that something was wrong! I stayed pretty calm with the knowledge that nothing felt WRONG and that I was still getting nauseous and sick occasionally, but I still couldn't wait for the doctor to check things out.

Finally, Tuesday came and we went to the office. I was very excited to possibly be able to find out the gender. Before the ultrasound the dr asked general questions and looked at my chart etc. Well, apparently I've gained too much weight already! She said my end weight gain should be around 10kg (22lb). Tomo made her check my chart again though and reminded her about the weight I lost from morning sickness. If using my morning sickness weight, I gained too much. Using my pre-pregnancy weight, I only gained about 2-3lbs which I think is pretty normal. So she changed her diagnosis from "too much weight" to "gaining to fast." Either way, I'll have to start watching what I eat...

Ultrasound time! I got a little worried at first when she was measuring and asking if I felt movements. When I said no, she got a concerned look on her face and said something like "we'll let's just look and see." She showed us the baby and he was moving around and perfectly fine! I assume that when she points out all the parts to us she's checking for anything wrong as well. When she got to the leg area, lo and behold, a little tiny (but definitely noticeable) "boy-part" was hanging out! 100% boy! She didn't take a picture of the "money shot" though...

Reactions: I was (am) excited because I wanted a "big brother" figure for any other children we have. Tomo was actually quite disappointed. He really wanted a little girl! He thinks that a boy as a first child is going to be difficult to handle. His mom said the same thing, but I think that's just because Tomo was such a wild child.

And now for names. We've been tossing names out here and there, well I have and Tomo just says yes or no, and Tomo decided to take a name I said and sort of make one up. I suggested Jace, Tomo added a 't' and we now have Jacet! Lol. It's not so far out there that I won't take it into consideration, and it's actually growing on me...the middle name will be Japanese but we haven't thought about that one too much yet.

The weather is finally getting colder so I can break out my more comfortable winter clothes and boots. And apparently in Japan (not sure about the U.S.) it's important to keep the pregnant belly warm. They actually make belly warmers for that so maybe ill get one. I'm in Japan, might as well do it the Japanese way :)

That's all for now. Stay tuned for more updates eventually!

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Active Little Baby

We went to the OB yesterday to get the results of some blood work and for the ultrasound. Blood work all came back fine thankfully, not that I was very worried about that since I think I'm a pretty healthy person :) The dr did advise me to avoid high energy/lots of movement activities such as jumping, running, carrying heavy loads etc. which means my kindergarten class is going to have to deal with dancing and running around to the songs by themselves! I was also glad that Tomo was there to hear that because maybe now he'll start helping out a little more around the house...


My favorite part of the doctor visit is the ultrasound of course. I love seeing how much this little thing grows between each visit! This week is week 15, which according to some forums online could possibly be far enough along for finding out the gender. I was excited to see if the OB could make a 50% guess! Sadly, she wouldn't even look. However, the baby was very very active and the Dr said it looks quite healthy, no obvious problems. I was surprised by how much it was moving around and all the little details we could see this time! It was swimming around, doing little flips and turns, flexing fingers and arms and legs. We could see the little fingers and toes, arms, legs, even the little nose and eyes! Tomo's comment: "wow, it actually looks human." Yes dear, well it IS a human! Haha. He was, once again, showing all of his excitement during this visit which he doesn't express at home. He even called his mom to explain everything this time! Usually he doesn't do that, though I'm sure she would appreciate it if he did.

Other than an update that my morning sickness is 90% gone (gained back about 4-5 of the 9-10 lbs I lost) and I'm starting to get a baby belly (had to buy more comfortable pants!) there's nothing more interesting to add this time around. Our next appointment, which will be the gender reveal, is a month from now. Such a long wait!

Thursday, September 27, 2012

Just a little update

Tomo and I went to the clinic the other day to check up on the baby and myself. This time the ultrasound was from my belly so Tomo was able to watch. He hasn't seen an ultrasound since the very first blob many weeks ago so I was excited for him to see everything. When the baby (which actually looks like a human now!) appeared on the screen, Tomo got so excited! He had a huge smile on his face and kept saying "wow, there's really a baby in there." It was adorable. The doctor showed us the heartbeat, pointed out all the limbs, and measured my stomach. The baby was moving a lot so it was hard to get a good ultrasound snapshot to print out, but of course that's a good sign :)

For an update on me, well my morning sickness almost went away for about a week but a few days ago it came back with a vengeance. It was even worse than the beginning. Literally everything I ate came right back up, so of course at this doctor's visit I was dehydrated and had lost some weight again. They gave me an injection of vitamins and fluids which is supposed to make me feel better but never really does. I also had to take some tests for STDs and blood cancer. Those results come back in a few weeks, which is when we'll be going to the clinic yet again.

So basically everything is going well. Baby is healthy and active, and I will hopefully lose this morning sickness soon!

Monday, September 17, 2012

Some General Info About Being Pregnant in Japan

     Since I already covered the personal "how I'm doing" details of this pregnancy so far, I figured I should write about generally being pregnant in Japan. As this is my first pregnancy, I don't have anything to compare to...so rather than a comparison, I'll just write what I've learned through research and what I've gone through so far.

    The first thing I learned while browsing the Internet is that most facilities won't give epidurals during the birthing process. So if you want an epidural, you better ask if the facility provides that option. This didn't really bother me because I was thinking about a natural birth anyway, though having the OPTION of an epidural would be nice...

     Another thing I found is that they don't have prenatal vitamins (unless you're in a big city and can find a big drug store). This worried me a little because of course I want to make sure my baby gets the nutrients and vitamins that he/she needs. I have been taking Folic Acid tablets because I heard that that's pretty important for the spinal development. I believe that Japan doesn't focus on prenatal vitamins because the Japanese diet is pretty diverse and nutritional. Before my "morning" sickness started, I had made an easy to follow chart of what foods contain what nutrients/vitamins and how much I would need each day. I found it pretty easy to follow, so hopefully once the sickness subsides I'll be able to get back on track.

    While searching around the Internet I realized that in the USA the first appointment/ultrasound isn't made until about 10 weeks into the pregnancy, and the next ultrasound is much later (if I'm wrong about that, sorry), with a total of only about 4 total. Well here, I had my first ultrasound at 6 weeks with one at each appointment after that. Maybe it was because I was so sick so they were just checking up on the baby, but I don't think so. I've read other moms in Japan had ultrasounds at every visit as well. I think that's pretty neat and helps the excitement.

     As far as payment, I'm having a hard time deciding whether I like how it's done here or not. I don't exactly know how childbirth is paid in the U.S.(insurance I assume?), but here the actual birthing process and hospital stay is paid for by the government. Most facilities require the mother and baby to stay in the hospital for about a week to make sure they get rest and everything is okay. The government pays a lump sum to the FAMILY, not the hospital, which you have to register for AFTER the birth...meaning that WE have to pay the huge amount out of our OWN pockets first, as well as any extra fees.

    A cool thing that they do here is providing coupons and discounts for various things. Once you find out you're pregnant, you receive a paper from the doctor and go to the city office to register the pregnancy. The city office than gives you a big envelope of various booklets and papers that provide advice and help during and after pregnancy.

-there's a Health Handbook that I need to bring to every doctor's appointment. They'll fill out the details of my pregnancy and how I'm progressing so that other doctors can be up to date in the event that I need to switch doctors (which I will eventually when we move yet again). This book is used until the child is 6 years old.

-There's a book of healthy, easy recipes

- A few papers that include schedules for pregnancy exercise classes, breathing, breastfeeding help, and even a cooking class. All these classes are provided by the community center and are free of charge, but they're only once a month.

-There's a booklet that provides information on food/nutrition intake during pregnancy, maternity wear, baby's progress in the tummy, how to care for baby after he/she's born etc

- The office also provides a cute little key chain that's supposed to let the wearer sit in the priority seats on the train and so on. I don't think it really works that well because most people sitting in those seats have their eyes closed "sleeping" or really sleeping, or just ignoring everyone...but it's a good effort and maybe once the 8th or 9th month comes around people will start to notice.

It says: "There's a baby in my tummy" on the front.

Anyway, those are some of the more interesting and exciting parts of being pregnant in Japan. I'll be going to my next doctor's appointment either this week or next week and hopefully I'll get to actually hear the heartbeat this time!